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C.Izard andM. Hyson, Shyness asadiscrete emotion, inW. Jones, J. Cheek andS. Briggs (eds.), Shyness: Perspectives onResearch andTreatment (NewYork: Plenum, 1986), pp. 14760.




4


P. Gilbert, TheCompassionate Mind (London: Constable, 2009); D. Keltner, Born tobe Good: Thescience ofameaningful life (NewYork: Norton, 2009).




5


B. Carducci, Q. Stubbins andM. Bryant, Still Shy After All These (30) Years (Boston: American Psychological Association, 2007).




6


C. Steele, Athreat intheair, American Psychologist, 52 (1997), pp. 61329; C. Steele, S. Spencer andM. Lynch, Self-image resilience anddissonance: therole ofaffirmational resources, Journal ofPersonality andSocial Psychology, 64 (1993), pp. 88596.




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P. Zimbardo (1986), TheStanford shyness project, inW. Jones, J. Cheek andS. Briggs (eds.), Shyness: Perspectives onresearch andtreatment (NewYork: Plenum, 1986), pp. 1725; P. Pilkonis, Shyness, public andprivate, andits relationship toother measures ofsocial behavior, Journal ofPersonality, 45 (1977), pp. 58595; P. Pilkonis andP. Zimbardo, Thepersonal andsocial dynamics ofshyness, inC. Izard (ed.), Emotions inPersonality andPsychopathology (NewYork: Plenum, 1979), pp. 13160; L. Henderson, Social Fitness: facilitating self-expression inthesocially inhibited, Society forInterpersonal Research andTheory (SITAR) Newsletter, no. 3 (Feb. 2003), pp. 23; T.Lorant, L. Henderson andP. Zimbardo, Comorbidity inchronic shyness, Depression andAnxiety, 12 (2000), pp. 2327.




8


DSM-5: Diagnostic andstatistical manual ofmental disorders, 5th edn (Arlington, VA: American Psychiatric Association, 2013).




9


Hofmann, S. & DiBartolo, P. (eds.) (2014). Social Anxiety: Clinical, developmental, andsocial perspectives, 3rd ed. (Waltham, MA: Academic Press).




10


R. Kessler, W. Chiu, O. Demler andE. Walters, Prevalence, severity, andcomorbidity of12-month DSM-IV disorders inthenational comorbidity survey replication, Archives ofGeneral Psychiatry, 62 (2005), pp. 61727.




11


J. Kagan, Galens Prophecy: Temperament inhuman nature (NewYork: Basic Books, 1994); J. Kagan, J. Reznick andN. Snidman, Biological bases ofchildhood shyness, Science, 240 (1988), pp. 16771; E. Aron andA. Aron, Sensory-processing sensitivity andits relation tointroversion andemotionality, Journal ofPersonality andSocial Psychology, 73/2 (1997), pp. 34568; E. Aron, TheHighly Sensitive Person: How tothrive when theworld overwhelms you (NewYork: Broadway Books, 1996).




12


M. Davis andS. Franzoi, Stability andchange inadolescent self-consciousness andempathy, Journal ofResearch inPersonality, 25 (1991), pp. 7087.




13


I. Bell, M. Jasnoski, J. Kagan andD. King, Isallergic rhinitis more frequent inyoung adults with extreme shyness? Apreliminary survey, Psychosomatic Medicine 52 (1990), pp. 51725.




14


L. Alden andP. Bieling, Interpersonal consequences ofthepursuit ofsafety (behavior research andtherapy), Personality andSocial Psychology Review, 10 (1998), pp. 6786.




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D. Kiesler, Contemporary Interpersonal Theory andResearch: Personality, psychopathology, andpsychotherapy (NewYork: Wiley, 1996).




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S. Taylor, Tend andbefriend, Current Directions inPsychological Science, 15 (2006), pp. 2737; S. Taylor, J. Lerner, D. Sherman, R. Sage andK. McDowell, Are self-enhancing cognitions associated with healthy orunhealthy biological profiles? Journal ofPersonality andSocial Psychology, 85 (2003), pp. 60515.




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D. Goodwin, Team ofRivals: Thepolitical genius ofAbraham Lincoln (NewYork: Simon & Schuster, 2005).


