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George E. Vaillant, Charles C. McArthur and Arlie Bock. Grant Study of Adult Development, 19382000, Murray Research Archive Dataverse, Harvard University, 2010, https://doi.org/10.7910/DVN/48WRX9 (https://doi.org/10.7910/DVN/48WRX9).




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Robert J. Waldinger and Marc S. Schulz. Whats Love Got to Do with It?: Social Functioning, Perceived Health and Daily Happiness in Married Octogenarians, Psychology and Aging 25, no. 2 (2010): 422431.




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Julianne Holt-Lunstad, Timothy B. Smith, Mark Baker, Tyler Harris and David Stephenson. Loneliness and Social Isolation as Risk Factors for Mortality: AMeta-Analytic Review, Perspectives on Psychological Science 10, no. 2 (2015): 227237.




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