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Romance and the Search for Meaning



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1


            Love: A History in Five Fantasies (Cambridge: Polity, 2021). . .




2


Jenkins C. What Love Is And What it Could Be. New York: Basic Books, 2017.




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. , Janet Brown E. Charles Darwin: Voyaging (Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 1996). . .




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. Maynard Keynes, J. Newton, The Man, https://mathshistory.st-andrews.ac.uk/Extras/Keynes_Newton/. . .




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